【學會給自己機會】(English writing below)
昨晚，有臉書朋友看了我的直播，說我像新聞主播，如果以後有電視台找我，那可好了！
我說：
「我，已經是我自己的電視台了。不等別人給我機會，我自己給我機會。不等別人發掘我，我自己發掘我的才華。這就是改命，不甘心認命。」
一直等待伯樂的人，是被動的。再說，等久了，人也老了。真的給你等到時，能夠受用的時間也沒有多少年了。等不到的話，這一生豈不是白白就過了嗎？
2016年，第一次做直播時，就有臉書朋友告訴我，我像新聞播報員。
三年後，連我師父前天也這麼說。
師父看著我的臉書限時動態時（我幾乎每天上傳）：「妳成長了。這三年內，妳成長了。」
我的工作，是給予他人希望。所以從我的直播，你會看出我語氣的肯定。
很多人在生活上面對大大小小的問題，需要我們風水命理師的指引。
我站出來，在大家面前亮相，才能給別人機會認識我，認識命運，進而改命。
我欣賞願意面對自己問題，又勇於請教別人的客人，如照片中發我私訊的那位客人。
不要在問題中糾結，而困自己在死結中。自尋煩惱是慢性自殺。
不要習慣受苦，使你忽略站可以拉你一把的人。苦久了，不斷被煩惱燒的心會成了一片迷霧，自己的臉也醺得更難看了。
只要主動，明天一定會更好，因為你給了你自己機會。
（但不包括主動佔別人便宜的人～）
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Yesterday, after watching my Live, a FB Friend commented that I resembled a newscaster. She said it would be great if I get noticed by a TV station.
My reply:
“I am already my own TV station. Instead of waiting for others to give me a chance, I create opportunities for myself. Instead of waiting for others to discover me, I discover my own talents. This is how we transform our destinies, not succumbing to fate.”
A person who is always waiting for his talent scout to appear is passive. Moreover, the longer you wait, the older you get. If your talent scout appears in your later years, there aren't that many usable years left of you. And wouldn't my whole life be wasted if my talent scout never appear?
In my first Live in 2016, I already have FB friends who compared me to being a news broadcaster.
Three years later, even my Shifu said the same thing. While watching my FB story (I update almost everyday), Shifu commented, "You have grown up. In these 3 years, you have really grown up."
My job is to give hope to other people. And you can tell from the assertiveness in my voice as I speak in my Lives.
There are many people who face all kinds and all sizes of problems, and require the guidance of Chinese Metaphysics.
Because I choose to step out in front of the masses, I give myself and others a chance to know me, know their Destiny and change their destinies.
I look up to people who choose to face their problems squarely, and take the initiative to seek guidance from others, like the client who PM me in the photo.
Don't get all entangled in your problems and tie yourself into a dead knot. Always looking for problems to fuss about is a slow form of mental suicide.
Don't get too used to sufferings that you ignore the person who can pull you up. When you suffer for too long, your afflictions form a hazy cloud around your heart and you turn uglier.
As long as you make the first move to help yourself, tomorrow will be a better day.
(Excluding people who take the initiative to freeload though...)
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